Anger Turned Inside Out: New Perspective On Anger
- Anger is hurt and fear of abandonment turned inside out.
- Anger is a secondary feeling that is often identified as the primary emotion. It, therefore, never communicates anything constructive.
- Behind every terrifying roar of anger is a hurt or frightened person who is ineffectively trying to get others to love, affirm and accept them.
- Anger is a futile and paradoxical boundary that some people utilize in order to avoid being hurt.
- Anger is often confused with real power and strength.
- Anger that achieves control and domination ALWAYS encourages dissent and rebellion.
- Control with intimidating anger requires a constant flow of it.
- Intimidated people often adapt to anger, thereby requiring higher levels of destruction.
- Eventually, the angry person is expelled from their position of power and domination, which reveals them as the abusive coward that they really are.
- Anger is misidentified as a powerful sense of righteousness and conviction.
- Hurtful anger always backfires when used against the one’s you love.
- Anger always divides relationships, never reconciles them
- Intimidating anger may be used to bully or control, but in actuality, it is a defensive reaction from a frightened or cowardly person.
- The angry, intimidating people were defenseless victims of aggression or abuse at one time.
- After the destructive consequences of hurtful anger, many people regret the harm they caused.
- Anger NEVER communicates one’s deeper more fundamental feelings.
- Intimidating anger does not come from a position of strength but rather a place of fear.
- We must be the guardians against our own anger. With vigilance, we can avoid falling prey to ourselves.
- What’s in being “king of the jungle” when you are alone?
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